Sunday, October 28, 2007

Moo. Yes, I said Moo. And I meant it too. Found out tonight inadvertently that my older daughter, the one who had to go back and live with her parents, has been kind of harassing my younger daughter on MySpace. This irritates me. Blair basically stirred up a bunch of crap between her and Nina and now seems to be pissed off that Nina's not wanting to communicate with her. It's kind of typical of Blair's behaviour. She seems either unwilling or unable to understand that you have to deal with the consequences of your actions. Period. When you lie to and about somebody, chances are they aren't going to want to have anything to do with you. Go figure, huh? She did finally quit trying to chat with me on Yahoo. And thankfully she hasn't called me either. Until I can get over the hurt and shame of her lying and other behaviour, I can't talk to her. I don't want to end up screaming at her like I would love to. She wasn't respecting this boundary, even though I told her quite a few times. Once I mentioned it to her mom, it stopped thankfully. Isn't it interesting that when you set boundaries the person you set the boundaries with seems to end up expecting you to respect their boundaries but not thinking yours are worth obeying? I'm sure this has to do with a maturity level. Marc is still pissed at me because of me trying to get him out of the mental hospital like his mom and he wanted. And he's also pissed that he ran our phone bill up. He wanted to know how in hell he could owe $100 when he was in the hospital part of the month. Easy. It's a shared minutes deal. I pay the bulk of the bill. I pay for me and Nina's line and then I usually charge him $12 to $15. It actually comes out to around $20 for his phone for the month, but I pay the fees and taxes. The three of us share 700 minutes a month. I spent HOURS on the phone this month calling the hospital and organizations who help the disabled trying to get him released. So most of the minutes were used up by this. So he's pissed off that he used his line with impunity, not checking with me about the minute usage and then all the sudden there's a bill for $100 on his line. Guess that is what happens when you quit caring about the people who care about you. I will be moving, so if he keeps the phone and doesn't pay on the bill, I'll have to have his line disconnected. Which sucks, but legally it's all in my name so I'm responsible.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Wow. This Blair sounds like a total bitch! Sounds to me like she should have never been brought to life! LOL! Harassing a child, how rude of her! She should be locked up in a psych ward for life! If they even do that. She should be taken out to the back and shot! I am so sorry to hear that she is your daughter! I think you should just cut her out of your life! Maybe you should have done that to begin with. I would have! What an idiot!